Relationships & Sex

Ticking Clock?? Lonely & Unhappy…


There is something that I have been noticing about women and it made me question it. Why do some women walk around like there is a ticking clock on their backs? Like the, “OMG, I’m thirty and haven’t been married yet or had any kids!!!” For me, when I look around and see women who have had kids and who have been married; some are still married, some were divorced before they even hit thirty, and they still aren’t happy. Do you feel like you time is running out?? And if it does run out will your biggest regret be that you never had kids or never got married?? I mean really will that be the BIGGEST regret you have??  I am not here to invalidate anyone’s feelings. You feel what you feel. But age does not have to be an indicator of “baggage”.

Talking with my girlfriends the word lonely comes up a lot. In fact, I know people who feel just as alone when they are with a man and/or in a room full of people. If you still end up feeling lonely and filled with insecurity in spite of the fact that you have a man in your life, why do you still feel that having a man, a relationship, having casual relationships, having sex, having attention from these people, having more issues to deal with that result from being involved with these men, is the answer to your problems? Continue reading “Ticking Clock?? Lonely & Unhappy…”

Relationships & Sex

Stay or Go? (Part 1 or 2)


Knowing when to work at a relationship can be stressful. Should you stay? Should you go? If you stay, should you just wait to see if things get better in time? Should you try to get your partner to change? Should you keep talking about the issues in the hope that it triggers understanding, remorse, resolve to change, and ensuring action? How do you know when to work at your relationship? Continue reading “Stay or Go? (Part 1 or 2)”

Beauty/Makeup

Beat Work Face…


So I decided to do a real quick tutorial showing you guys ONE of my go to looks for work…It is very simple (See my accompanying video for full tutorial: (http://youtu.be/eioFQXnzRa0)

Read on to see the products what I used…

Eyes:

UDPP

Groundwork Paint Pot

Blunt

Wet n Wild Palette (All the Matte Colors)

Darkest brown for crease

Middle Color for lid

Brow Highlight Lightest color

Urban Decay 24/7 in Zero Eyeliner

Maybelline Falsies and Falsies Flared (Extreme Black)

Face:

Studio Fix Concealer NW40 (Under Eye)

Studio Fix Concealer NW45 (for Dark Blemishes)

Bare Minerals Golden Bark

Cheeks/Lips:

Razin by MAC

Super Nude by Lips by Carla