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Mood Rant!!!


I had this conversation a while ago w/ myself…and people keep talking me out of that feeling…but ppl keep proving me right…

I’ve come to realize that I just may not be relationship material anymore…for the new wave of dating…not b/c I’m an ass hole or a jump or anything of that nature…but (here’s the kicker) because I am consistent…attentive…caring…adaptive…I listen…selfless…make the effort…need I keep going??? I’ve come to realize that shit is a waste of my time/energy…cuz it is no longer something people even value…they question me why I respond so fast, why you answer when I call so fast…why you do something for me I didn’t ask you to do…people want YOU to wait just in case something better comes along for them…wait until they figure out what they want…wait until they get their lives together…(even people who don’t like the “new school” dating, they don’t even realize they’ve adapted this new version)…I’m old school…I like you…you like me…we vibing…we have chemistry….we click…we laugh…I’m all in, and don’t want to risk losing you…everyone has no problem losing people they actually care about, being that they have so much pride and scared to be vulnerable…or you point out one thing…they think there is this whole big issue…like damn LISTEN!!!!! stop going off the deep fucking end everytime I mention something…people can’t take any criticism anymore…if I’m trying to teach you what I NEED to feel love and you think I’m mad…it’s like you AREN’T LISTENING!

Or if that person just isn’t it…tell them and let them the fuck go…don’t text them to call them & then be confused when they catch feelings…like if you don’t like them and see a future with them…BYE! They told you what they were looking for…A RELATIONSHIP! If you are no longer looking for that BYE!!!


STOP SIGNING UP FOR SERIOUS DATING SITES IF YOU AREN’T READY!!! Log on to Tinder and POF if you just looking to BS around and stop wasting people’s time who actually looking for something serious and KNOW they want something serious!!! And wasting people’s time who was willing to put in the effort b/c they feel you are worth it…there SITES & People out they who are looking for that…and that is actually EASIER to find…stop wasting people’s time who wants a relationship!!!!

I could’ve been left the fuck alone!!!

Yes I am single and no I’m not interested in dating anymore…my heart really can’t take anymore disappointment! ūüíĒ

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Yall know I love Glassesshop.com


Hey Guys!!!

So I am back to show you guys another pair of eyeglasses from one of my favorite sites,GlassesShop.com. [Check out my previous one Here] This site offers prescription eyeglasses & prescription sunglasses. These particular lens I’ve NEVER seen before which make them super unique and right up my alley.

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These Faux Wood Frames though??? LOVE!! This site continues to impress me with all the Unique Frames they offer. And at an low cost! #Winning. They offer several different glasses styles and they are available for both men and women. This is still my go to purchase glasses online!

And you guys know I can’t leave you without a coupon code. Use Coupon Code¬†GSHOT50¬†and you can get 50%off on eyeglasses or sunglasses with free lenses (sale frames are excluded from coupon). That is a great DEAL!!!!

So that’s it guys! Make sure to go check out the site! ¬†They have glasses for everyone and every style you can think of. Don’t forget to tell them who sent you!

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EIRIS Watch Unboxing{Help Support Blindness}


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Eiris Watches and just launched and they feature minimal classic timepieces.
Eiris (a twist on “iris”) is to support the organization Sight Savers. $15 of each sale will support the outreach activities of this group to¬†eliminate avoidable blindness.
Watch Details:
Style: Brushed Rose Gold РWhite Face
Price: $149
Where to Purchase: eiriswatches.com
I Love the fact that you get 2 different band to swap out when you choose and it is very easy to do. Also you can purchase additional bands in assorted colors, they are $49.95.
This watch is nicely constructed and super chic and classic.
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 https://youtu.be/YH1mLZ5Ki5Q
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New Eyeglasses from Glassesshop.com


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Hey Guys!!!

So I am back with another quick review from one of my favorite sites,GlassesShop.com. [Check out my previous review Here] This site offers prescription eyeglasses & prescription sunglasses. I’ve been dying to pick get some tortoise style eyeglasses, and these were perfect.

I usually NEVER buy eyeglasses online, but this site has so many different &unique styles. They offer several different glasses styles and they are available for both men and women.

And you guys know I can’t leave you without a coupon code. Use Coupon Code¬†GSHOT50¬†and you can get 50%off on eyeglasses or sunglasses with free lenses (sale frames are excluded from coupon). That is a great DEAL!!!!

So that’s it guys! Make sure to go check out the site! ¬†The have glasses for everyone and every style you can think of. Don’t forget to tell them who sent you!

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Glasses from GlassesShop.com


Hey guys!!!

So I am back with another quick review. Today I will be reviewing a site called GlassesShop.com. This site offers prescription eyeglasses. I picked up a pair of their  sunglasses. Which I LOVE!They offer several different styles and they are available for both men and women.

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This is a great site to get cheap glasses . The also have a big campaign going on right now where you can get your first pair free (Just pay for shipping & handling).

Also keep in mind you can also get prescription sunglasses. This was actually big plus for me, because before I got my PRK Surgery (Lasik), It was so expensive to get prescription lenses (or lenses in general), so I glad that there were inexpensive options for eyeglass and sunglasses. Fernando will definitely be taking advantage of this site.

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And you guys know I can’t leave you with out a coupon code. Use Coupon Code GSHOT50¬†and you can get 50%off on eyeglasses or sunglasses with free lenses (sale frames are excluded from coupon). That is a great DEAL!!!!

So that’s it guys! Make sure to go check out the site! ¬†The have glasses for everyone and every style you can think of. Don’t forget to tell them who sent you!

 

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I Found a New Love…The Dreslyn Line!!


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So I mentioned a site called Luvocracy on my YouTube Channel last month or so and I came across a page while browsing featuring some fashion from a line called the The Dreslyn!

I think I spent an half hour “Luv-ing” (that’s what the call it on Luvocracy). LOL…The best part is I can add it to a cart right on Luvocracy without having to go to their site! It’s like Pintrest with a Check Out cart…LOL But I really wanted to come and show you guys a few some things I really like from the line.

This Nin Jumpsuit is just simple and classic, and paired with the Kent Slip On and Sunnies makes it so My style. Simple, Chic & Casual.

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Yea I know you guys can see me in this!!! ūüôā

Now how about some handbags I saw that I am loving.

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Both the Florent Backpack and the Half Moon Bag¬† are perfect for traveling, walking around the mall, or the in the city. With my hands free to carry all my shopping bags I won’t have to worry about my handbag weighing and slowing me down me down. You’All know how we get once we start shopping!

I am loving everything about The Dreslyn Line! Love how everything is so unique without going over board. Almost like a “Back to Basics” Line with a little twist. Did I mention that all these products I mentioned can be found on Luvocracy.com. Make sure you check out my Page too for more items that I am loving from The Dreslyn Line. Let me know what your favorites are!

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JUST SAYING HI!!!


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NYX Face Awards Finalists !


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HEY GUYS!!

Have you been keeping up with the NYX Fine Artistry of Cosmetics Elites Awards, also known as the FACE Awards? I sure have! If you haven’t let me give you a quick run down. The FACE Awards is an event created by NYX Cosmetics to not only showcase the thriving YouTube Beauty Vlogger community, but also to give an opportunity to expand and get these top bloggers more exposure, experience and connections with some of the top experts in the beauty industry to help grow their professional and YouTube careers. Continue reading “NYX Face Awards Finalists !”

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Rant: Debbie Downer and Negative Nancy…


I posted this as my Facebook¬†status yesterday…so I decided to post it here for clarity.

You every had that one friend who is always complaining about their past decisions and/or their current place/situation in life?? It is honestly SOO annoying!!

My Status read: Continue reading “Rant: Debbie Downer and Negative Nancy…”

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Rant: Unmarried and Childless…


So, the more and more I look around and have conversations with people I notice something….

Since when is it frowned upon to be in your twenties, unmarried and childless??

What is¬†funny is that¬†a lot¬†(NOT all) of people who are WITH child are ashamed/unhappy that they are with child and single…But earth the people with kids, have no fear…¬†you are no longer the minority..it’s us the women who are childless and unmarried who are…so now we are the ones being look at like we are a disgrace…o_O apparently.

Oh how morals and standards have changed… Oh well, I am proud of who I am and what I have (and DON’T have) No one can ever make me feel bad for not having a baby…that shit can’t be returned to the store like a pair of shoes…

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Updates…


I am currently in the process of working on my FAQ (Frequently Asked Questions) video. I have received lots of questions during my natural hair journey and I feel like creating a video answering all you guys questions, is the easiest way to get all your questions answered at one time. Please post your questions below, hit the ask button to the left or simply email me at AskTotalDivaRea@totaldivarea.com. A Video answering all your questions will be posted

Another thing I am working on, which I am very excited about, is a NEW advice section of my Blog. You Guys know that I love blogging about relationships/sex issues, problems & situations. This New section will be Q&A. You guys can ask me ANY question about a relationships/friendships problem you are having or a situation you are going through that you would like my opinion on. I will post your question in that section, followed by my response.

You will be left anonymous {if you don’t mind using you username (or First name) please note that some where in your email). Please sign the email at the bottom, the way you would like me to address you in my response. For Example: Signed, Broken Hearted, or Signed, Torn. Be creative when being anonymous, try using something that is relevant to the situation you are writing about.

For this section, please send you questions, via email ONLY.¬†When sending you email, please put ‚ÄúAdvice Column‚ÄĚ in the Subject Line. Those questions can also be sent to AskTotalDivaRea@totaldivarea.com

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Esquire’s Sexiest Woman Alive…


The title belongs to Rihanna for 2011!!!¬†I am not surprised AT ALL. She’s¬†gorgeous, exotic, edgy and¬†definitely¬†Sexy.¬†She beat out numerous beauties who were in the running, including, Beyonce & Mila Kunis.

This is not a typical posting for me but I have been following Rihanna since Day 1 and I love her music!!

Check out her Esquire cover:

Just stunning!!!

Gotta Love RiRi!!