Do you want to have kids in the future?
HA! The question everyone seems to ask a woman once she’s reached a certain age. In the past my answer would’ve been an automatic NO! Not saying that now it is an automatic Yes, but I am not totally against it. HOWEVER, it is not a priority in my life. If I have them I have them, If I don’t I don’t. PERIOD! People always assume that every woman wants kids and a big family, but honestly that’s just not the case. Also as a woman dating someone who already has a kid; it takes the pressure off of me having kids off of me, meaning I don’t feel obligated to have any. Actually him having one, honestly makes me glad that I haven’t had any. Also the desire just isn’t there for me right now. Like AT ALL…LOL…Maybe it will change in the future, maybe it won’t, but right now, it’s not an option or priority. One thing I do know, if I do decide to have a kid(s) I will know it was because I wanted a baby, was trying to have a baby, and it won’t be something that just happened.